Three couples tell their remote connections, problems of lack of presence and commitment to bring the advantages of kilometers of distance.
Not always manages to prevail in distance love, but when he does, it is powerful and indivisible.
Love knows no boundaries, says the famous phrase. But what happens in specific cases of human life? Meet three love stories distance relationships and learn the fate of each couple.
To follow partner to live in another country for his work can be enough to express how you want, but what happens when one of the partners can not move?
Amy Rogerson, 32 years old, came from England to Libya to be with her partner of one year.
Two weeks after the couple began connection, to her new boyfriend she had to return to Libya to work.
"We'll say goodbye, but he called me from the airport and talked about it. Even after just two weeks we knew we wanted to zotoheshim each other or at least to try for this, so we kept contacts, "says Amy.
Yet it proved to be a challenge.
"Internet connection was not always enough to make a Skype call," recalls Rogerson. "And when Libyan leader Gaddafi was in town, she fully expected."
After a year of distance relationship with her partner still in Libya, Rogerson left his job as an administrator and made great movement to be with. "We understood that we needed a solution," she explained.
After five years, a wedding and the four countries, the couple again found themselves in the same situation, reports the newspaper-slip. Possible complications during pregnancy Rogerson forced him to leave home then to Tanzania and her husband to return to Britain for six months.
"The period before the birth was very difficult for me and sad for my partner", conjure it. "Earlier I was what I expected, but this time I had a baby with whom had to arrange."
These two important moments were experienced remote connection unlike the couple.
"The first time, we became very close within less time and proved to be a good thing for us. The second time we knew that distance was required and would have more difficult, but certainly will not affect our marriage. As in the first case, and in the second, it was horrible. After them we agreed that it would not do more, "says Amy.
To stay or go?
For French humanitarian worker, Elise Brauard, 29 years old, who has lived in six different countries, this decision is always very difficult to get.
"You can not treat a remote connection like a normal relationship," explained Brauard. "It is not normal, because you lose a lot. It is true that communicates and is seen daily on Skype, but not the same thing. That person is not really in the room with you. It's very difficult. "
But she believes it can not stop you to try.
Her last link in the distance began while living in Pakistan. After a year, her partner accepted a position in North Africa and accepted it. The two were independent and had been in the same situation before, so knew the connection is remote.
"We talked earlier how to communicate and how often. If not reach, we were planning something for the next day, because none of us wanted to stay at home all day waiting for the call. "
The couple had an agenda that will reassemble holiday, but also will provide new experiences in unfamiliar places.
"Journeys were great fun for us," explains Brouard. "If you have only 10 days to be with someone, it makes the experience more intense. He does not want to lose even one second of it, because it is beautiful feeling to be finally with someone. "
"In the end, the distance broke it," admits Brouard. "I took the career I wanted, but the separation was a difficult decision to make."
Sharing not ever avoided
Some couples have no other choice. Steve Tizzard, 39, and jackleen Ryder, 32 years, was recognized as living in Japan. They lived together for two years and a half before work and visa obligations to force them to return to the partners in the distance.
"Every time you miss the other person," Ryder recalled. "Surrounded by people, but again feel alone. Sometimes it encourages other to do things, I began for the first gym, yoga and dance classes took the traditional Japanese ".
For Tizzard, it had a similar effect. "My skills were not Japanese language very good, jackleen usually translate for me," he says. "Without it I felt less isolated among my Japanese friends, but I started to learn more languages."
Perhaps the biggest change was the amount of time experienced when communicating.
"When you're with someone every day, you can sit next to him and you have the mind to another place. But when you are in a remote connection, suddenly starts making intense conversation, so I think that it brings them closer to themselves, "said Tizzard.
After a year in the remote connection, the couple divided between Japan and Britain was engaged in Osaka to be crowned the desire for more co.
"I think when you're away, do not take for granted partner," says Ryder. "It's like a test partition, I know how it is to be without it and realize that it is not a good thing. It helped me to my mind: this is the person you want to be. "